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Thanks for your thoughtful reply kb.

"Healed brains from addiction always at risk" is a good way of placing addiction in context. As an alcoholic, I refer to myself as a "recovering" not "recovered" alcoholic. While I have 16 plus years now of continuous sobriety, I relapsed after my first 4 years sober - totally my responsibility. As addicts, we have to keep our defenses up to any and all threats, especially during the tougher stretches of life.

At the same time, and for anyone remotely thinking about getting sober, the benefits far, far outweigh the horrific existence of an active addict. I have made friends I would otherwise never have made. The level of support is incredible and a sober lifestyle is extremely enjoyable.

I'm not downplaying the challenges of getting and staying sober. In my case, attending AA and having monthly meetings with my psychotherapist have been invaluable.

Joe

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@heyjoe415 Same here. AA meetings (really working the program) and trauma therapy have helped but it is a journey. My addict mind seems to lean towards black and white, one way or no way, extremes. I am trying to find the gray, the middle ground. I know that this part of me reacts, hyper vigilant, waiting for the other shoe to drop, controlling or passive, utilizing some survival skills that helped me but now are maladaptive skills that harm me and others. We "TRUDGE" the road to happy destiny. I always appreciate your posts Joe.