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Sister still drinking despite consequences, any advice?
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@heyjoe415 yes you are right. Addiction is addiction is addiction..it is so important to ne aware of risky situations behaviors stress being overwhelmed unrealistic expectations etc..long time use of prescribed benzodiaapines till successful taper off under medical supervision in 2017. Learning to manage thr nervous systrm responses not acting or reacting but pause stop. Thr word no. Healed brains from addiction always at risk..
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Thanks for your thoughtful reply kb.
"Healed brains from addiction always at risk" is a good way of placing addiction in context. As an alcoholic, I refer to myself as a "recovering" not "recovered" alcoholic. While I have 16 plus years now of continuous sobriety, I relapsed after my first 4 years sober - totally my responsibility. As addicts, we have to keep our defenses up to any and all threats, especially during the tougher stretches of life.
At the same time, and for anyone remotely thinking about getting sober, the benefits far, far outweigh the horrific existence of an active addict. I have made friends I would otherwise never have made. The level of support is incredible and a sober lifestyle is extremely enjoyable.
I'm not downplaying the challenges of getting and staying sober. In my case, attending AA and having monthly meetings with my psychotherapist have been invaluable.
Joe