@deme17z of course you can’t let him eat foods that will damage him. It must be difficult though, if he’s asking for unhealthy foods.
Maybe your son is right about just letting your husband sleep or do what he wants. Yes, the diabetes might get worse if he doesn’t exercise. But if exercise is so tiring, and causes discomfort, or he didn’t want to, is it time to let him stop fighting the fatigue?
I’m so sorry you’re losing that companionship. It’s a help though, that you have your son and daughter visiting and helping.
Also……could you ask your pharmacist if the medications are making him more tired? Maybe the dose is too strong?
Thinking of you often and sending prayers your way.
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