To all of us. I would like for all of us to say to the abusers: "Are you proud of yourself'? What is it like to look into the mirror and see yourself as a truly good human being? and on and on. What world are they living in? Do they really care about any one else but themselves? Fot shame. Me, you and the rest of us are the ones who help this world to be a better one. So let us be proud of ourselves. Love, Love, Love Peach

Dear Kimspre3 it is ok not to have to forgive anyone. It is they who have put you in the position to have to or to want to forgive them. To me it is wrong of them to put you in the position to want to forgive them. If they have had a change of heart and deserve forgiveness it is up to you. . If you need to do this to be happier then do what you need to do for yourself. Oh my it sounds like I am preaching but I do mean well for all of us. Peach