Thanks, @colleenyoung

Hi, @rosedl. I didn't have Pluvicto, so the 3-foot distancing wasn't an issue, but I can comfirm that someone with paralysis due to a spinal lesion does need a very high level of close care, from rolling them on their side to prevent pressure injuries (bedsores), to assisting them in and out of a wheelchair, to giving them their meds, to emptying their bedpan or commode chair. There's no way you can do all that from 1 metre away, so you'll need to have an urgent conversation with your father's medical team about how to minimise your own risk.

My background:

I was 56 when I was paralyzed from the ribs down due to a prostate cancer metastasis to my spine in 2021. They did emergency debulking sugery to the lesion, then post-op radiation, and later radiation to the prostate itself. They also started me immediately on hormone therapy (ADT and Apalutamide).

I defied the odds and got back to walking (with various issues/adaptations) after a couple of years of demanding physio. If it was a near-run thing for me starting at 56, I understand why it would be nearly impossible for your father at 81.

I wish the best to both of you. ❤️

@colleenyoung Thanks, Colleen, for looping me in. Dear Rose: My husband was able to walk and move about on his own during Pluvicto. He was treated at Mayo Rochester, whose safety instructions were much less strict than those reported by some other people posting here. We were not told to keep three feet apart for any length of time, but we were advised to use separate beds and bathrooms for a couple of days after an infusion if possible. As Colleen suggests, you can ask your father's care team for specific instructions on how you can care for your father but still observe sufficient precautions after his infusions. Simply telling you to "do the best you can" isn't helpful. Good luck with getting some additional help from his providers. Sending love and strength to you....