Well, in my opinion, most folks beyond a spouse, child etc. are not particularly concerned about how one is doing when dealing with prostate cancer. It is an uncomfortable topic. I keep it close to the vest and do not share my diagnosis with everyone. Family, yes. Close reliable friends, yes. Beyond that, nope. I think people think that prostate cancer is a disease that "other people get." That is part of the problem so when someone close gets it, it seems to get weird fast.