@guybe I've had similar experiences. I think for a lot of people, it freaks them out and they either don't know what to say to help or they are freaked out enough that they need to go back to their happy place.

Short version: I think people have different levels of empathy. For those who don't have much, I really don't want their fake concern. For those who are empathetic, I only rely on a few trusted friends. But, that's just me. I know some folks tell everyone. All good in my book.