@labrown One day at a time is right. Thank you for sharing. Our life is also changed, as my wife slips further and further away. We are aging in place, and I'm 24/7 unpaid caregiver, primary cook and bottle washer, etc., and I also do the deflection/walk away routine, when the going gets angry. I found the Savvy Caregiver program at Dartmouth Geriatric Center of Health, very helpful. We also have a Home Health Caregiver, for five days a week, which makes everything much simpler for me, while the caregiver is here. It's not an easy road.
Tom