@rleech

Agreed 100 %

I have no idea where "in sickness and in heaths" part got missing in all of this psychobabel and how affirmation of "personal peruse of happiness" with complete disregard of partner's situation and feelings became OK ?

If one's own sex-life is the ONLY thing that matters in a relationship than why marry at all ? Stay single and peruse your interests and aspirations and think only about your feelings and needs, that is completely OK. What is NOT OK is to promise love and support and forever partnership and that get abusive in a moment when partner is the most vulnerable and helpless and needs your help the most.

We are entitled to have feelings but we have no right to be abusive and hurtful under any circumstance, no matter what we feel , or think , or need - period. And, if we truly love another than we love that person for 100s of small and big reasons , and we do not just walk away when ONE reason becomes missing ??? Just ridiculous to even try to justify that. I wonder how many people know what true love and partnership is ... *sigh