Google inquiry seems to give a decent answer, thinking his notes should read "early return of continence" instead of "early return of incontinence". will ask him on Tuesday.
I can tell you I am not having any early return of continence, it is just miserable trying to go shopping, do any yard work, even going out to eat or playing games with friends. But I do all these anyway as I don't want to make my wife's life anymore stressful. After 43 years of marriage I don't want to stress her out by being so negative, even though I really feel negative.