@my4gratefuls
I am so sorry you have to go through this. I have basal cell carcinoma of the vulva, that's extremely rare. I had a partial vulvectomy a month ago, but I still sit on a donut and still have the never ending weeping. I'm old, so I'm "lucky" this didn't happen when I was younger. Still, it's devastating for a woman to lose what makes her, physically, a female. I no longer cry, but I am angry that so many people are totally insensitive about this. It's a personal, tragic experience. We will learn to live with this in our own individual way. It's a loss, so we are dealing with grief. Small pleasures really help, so try to find those and enjoy them as much as you can. We still have life. Hugs and comfort to you!