@kate14 I am older, too. Haven't had a pelvic for years, just like you, because it was not needed any more. Why do doctors not understand women's bodies? Now I'm truly deformed, but at least this didn't happen while I was young. It's psychologically devastating. And I will have to be watched for the rest of my life. No treatment except excision, unfortunately. I will just hope for the best. Hugs to you, too.