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@elizterrel
I'm not sure why anyone stays with a doctor that doesn't listen and that they clash with. My rheumatologist listens to me and allows me to follow what my body is telling me in most situations. If he disagrees, he provides clear and logical reasons why he disagrees. It's not always about today. PMR must be managed all the way to the exit ramp. If I suggest something that interferes with the exit strategy then I want to know.

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@kjoed53
I hear this. In theory and personal practice, I agree.

Access is different for everyone (location, insurance, scheduling) and there are some true medical deserts out there. Sadly, not everyone has the ability to find someone better, so I do think it's important to empower the individual -- many have been raised to think they have to follow orders. Clearly you and I were not 😉 Lucky us!

In my case, even in a town with a lot of docs, very few are taking new clients. I consider myself very fortunate to have had an excellent rheumatologist who was able to diagnose me and help me understand what was happening. At this point I can work with a jerk to avoid having to spend time shopping for a new doc, but if that become difficult I sure will take the time!

@kjoed53 You do realize there is no real PMR Exit ramp. It is chronic and the best there you can find is a Remission Ramp. All autoimmune problems are chronic - no exit ramp for any of the known autoimmune problems.