@pierwell When others tell you that you lease listen to your inner voice when "...Everyone says I need to put him in Memory Care...", as you know best how your marriage works.

But please also keep an open mind as change sometimes rapid and catastrophic, is a constant in memory loss. To that end, it is a good idea to have visited several facilities and found one or more that are acceptable for you.

Are you still able to get a good night's sleep, or must you be "on guard" 24/7 due to night wandering and potential dangers? That is the point at which, for his safety and yours, you might need to consider either Memory Care or an overnight helper.