...join others in saying sorry to read how your life has changed; without talking about my issues but how life has turned around... after being so active working, raising children, etc. etc. for me and husband it is a very hard pill to swallow. I used to feel bad when I saw neighours aging/being ill etc. but now it is happening to use the truth really hits home. We rarely go out... we are in pain etc. ... we have had to come to terms with it all but how I wish for just one week of the life I used to have... am sure many here do... sorry I am not familiar with your illnesses... but seems a few good responses on here.... such as teaching hospital? Best of luck to you and as far as that man who remarks about your weigh gain: have pity on him for his ignorance.... how rude! Take care and glad your wife is supportive and you are no alone facing all this. J.