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@kjoed53. True and keep in mind that DNRs vary by state. Most require physician signatures, some require RN, NP or PA signatures and some require additional validation. Some are specific for in-hospital stays, some for in-home. All have designated colors and all should be prominently displayed or in locations - such as the front of the refigerator or in ones wallet - where EMS can readily locate it.

For more information, check Do Not Resuscitate (DNR) Laws by State 2026

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@grammato3 As a person with a terminal diagnosis (I have ALS), I do not know how long I have to live, but I do know that my life expectancy is short. If I can offer any advice, it is not to leave a mess for your children/executor to have to deal with when you are gone. I have seen a lawyer, and put together a Will, an Advanced Care Directive (these documents may have different names in different parts of the world), an Enduring Power of Attorney and a Medical Decision Maker appointment. I also intend to apply for VAD (what here is Australia is called Voluntary Assisted Death and is legal in all States) if and when the going gets too tough. It is now, while you are of sound mind and still have energy, that all of us should think of the future we are asking our descendants to work through, and make our decisions and choices legally binding so there is no ambiguity. Some people may think of this as morbid, but it makes a difference if you know you can leave this world in peace, and the next generation will take up their roles smoothly and peacefully. Please do this for your youngsters, family and friends. @terryellwood