Welcome @wilcy
I've had neuropathy for a brief time. No one seems to know why it started. However, I am very lucky (so far) because I do not suffer from any pain. I don't know what the future holds, none of us do, but I will take things as they come.
I also take Gabapentin for a variety of other issues I have. I do not feel it helps me either. I was very interested in your comment about it impacting your memory! My memory SUCKS (pardon the French)! I've been thinking of coming off the Gabapentin, but each time I do, I have some sort of a flare up and the docs tell me to remain on. Guess I'll see
Sorry I can't help you regarding how to manage the pain, but there are many other wonderful people in the group who can give you suggestions.
Enjoy the remainder of the weekend!
Ronnie (GRANDMAr)