@scottij I hear what you’re saying given ehdog sounds like she would leave if she could and can’t but needs to continue living under the same roof.

Hard to understand from here why the partner is so callous, dismissive, unsupportive and degrading. Obnoxious.

Hopefully the psychiatrist will help with tools to let the barbs slide off but also to address them direct with the partner.

If things don’t change I don’t see how ehdog will improve her health living under the same roof.

Very difficult 😞