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Partner diagnosed with prostate cancer recently
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@canadaanne
Hi Anne, Thank you for the support group information.
I think I need it.
I'm definitely struggling with this & how to help my partner. And I keep randomly breaking down and crying-even when I'm just driving to the grocery store. Our friends & family call to see how things are going, but I'm having a hard time talking to anyone.
I just want to make sure that all appt's are scheduled for my partner, that we have clear & detailed information, proper testing & follow up care. And I also want my partner to get some private one on one counseling. But this is not happening.
When all that is done, I just want to hide under my covers.
Prior to my partners prostate cancer diagnosis, I was my mom's full-time caregiver for about 4-5yrs. She's older, disabled & has dementia.
I've had to hand those responsibilities off.
This is a bit tricky for me.
So, I think the caregiver support group would probably be really helpful.
How are you doing? And feeling?
How long have you & your husband been dealing with the PC diagnosis?
Any suggestions other than the support group that you have found to be helpful?
Thank you for reaching out.
I appreciate it.
Melinda
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@myboo2u
Another Support group you should consider is ancan.org. They hold weekly meetings for advanced prostate cancer patients, Some Husbands and wives show up together to get help. If you are new, they work with you first and give you at least 30 minutes to go over treatment options. I’ve been attending their weekly meetings for almost 5 years. You wouldn’t believe how much you learn going to those meetings. You can even watch a previous meeting if you go to the website.
They have meetings for caregivers, They have speaking freely meetings for the men to discuss issues other than treatment, issues about their feelings, worries and fears. Lots of guys show up, you don’t have to talk about anything you can listen and maybe then you want to participate.