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@suelannon I wish I could actually hug you. Just because sometimes it helps. I also was married young (15) & (16). 51 years April 12th. It's so hard to watch when the eating slows to practically nothing. Sleeping most the day. As a caregiver we just do. Our best. Sometimes they get ( snippy) my husband is dealing worthless . Not working & just being in the house isn't his style. I've asked his friends to call more often. Feel others don't quite understand what people go through with devastating illnesses. Wish you both comfort.

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@casey1959 Thank you so much for your response. Hugs help tremendously ! I know that your husband just had surgery. It took 6 months for my husband to get over the Surgery. So many set backs. He had drains for 6 Months, had a staff infection , collapsed lung and pneumonia .
he never really got his strength back but we had a really good year. Took 2 great vacations and spent a lot of time with family and friends.
He was always big and strong so he hates to see me doing everything around the house but thankfully I can do it.
I hope your Husband recovers quickly from the Surgery and regains his strength back.
Did they find cancer in any of the Lymph Nodes ? Hopefully not .