@tracidw I love your thought… “Perhaps love is most powerfully expressed when it's not wrapped in doing but in being... being present. Just being.” Like you I tend to be a fixer…not being able to “fix” my husband’s Alz has been hard. I have done so much reading, searching the internet, trying healthy food and products…maybe I just need to focus on being present. I recently started reading the book “Contented Dementia,” perhaps it will help me in this journey to be more helpful to my husband. Thank you for sharing.