@amberpep If you are referring to the not living together initially, they do plan to within six months probably, and as I said, he owns the business and pretty much only goes in two days a week and she can telecommute most of the time so they are able to go back and forth easily. It's only about two hours between the two cities by train. I just worry that he may be becoming very domineering, a trait that I would not wish on any woman because I have gone through it. Our marriage was rough for many years and we do still have a lot of rough spots. As I have mentioned though, through all of my cirrhosis difficulties and recuperation from transplant my husband could not have been better. It seemed hard on him when I was able to be my independent self again. When I was not he pretty much enjoyed having that control.
JK