@pml - Thanks for your words of wisdom. This doctor is my second uro/gyno. The first one cut away labial tissue but could not even go through the urethra to the bladder. Recovery was long and painful and the problem is not solved. My husband and I have now had a discussion to have the doctor not cut to open the vagina but to try and dilate the urethra under anesthesia. This is something that might need a repeat from time to time but might be worth it.
So sorry for your situation. Have you ever taken Gemtesa? Thanks so much for the prayers.