@charlesprestridge
I was truly fortunate I stumbled into my Surgeon. I already had seen one Surgeon and two Radiation Oncologists and my wife wad present at all of them. I had all but decided I was going Radiation and told my wife she probably did not need to go to this last surgical consultation, so I went alone and came home floored from the consultation and how the surgery was performed and the outlook after surgery. I was so impressed I went home told my wife this was the way I was going but she should hear it. I called and explained that if I could get a repeat consultation with my wife and I was happy to pay the consultation fee again. I was told again unfortunately he was booked for several weeks out, but she would check. She got back to me and arranged another appointment the next week. She also left the appointment sold and to think I even myself had thought of canceling my last consultation. He even did not charge me for seeing me again with my wife.