@sart I hear you. It's easy for me to tell you that not having breasts won't matter because I only had a lumpectomy. But I've read so many comments from older women who have "gone flat" & they wear loose clothes & say that they're doing great! I embraced my cancer as a way to embark on a healthier lifestyle. I was already vegan but I completely stopped drinking alcohol (I feel so much better) & started doing Pilates at a local studio 4 times per week! Trying hard to lose 5 more pounds! So, weirdly, I feel healthier than ever! It's been a very positive journey for me ("SO FAR!" Fingers crossed!) Sending best wishes to you! 😊