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@kjc48 If it were me, I would opt for a location both you and your husband are familiar with. I think your present community sounds like where you are leaning toward. That makes sense to me. Most dementia patients don't do well with change even though you will be going into a new home if it is in the same community it can be less stress he has to deal with. If he is less stressed so will you be. An important consideration for me would be to be in a community where there was convenient top notch medical care and senior services geared towards serving people with dementia and their families. If you stay in Florida where you are now, you have the benefit of being established patients with your current doctors. As you mentioned, none of your family is nearby and you likely will not be able to count on them for respite care. I agree with you that you have just answered your own question. I wish you and your husband a smooth move and hope you can have fun feathering your new nest. Hugs!

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@ocdogmom Thank you for always reaching out. You are so right. Tonight, my 50 year old son in Texas sends me a picture of his two new dogs, and that's the son that is travelling everywhere with his hockey sons. So, what does that tell you or me? When would he possibly have time for me, and you're correct respite care. Not happening in Texas. Yes, funny, you sent me your note, and an hour before, I said to my husband at dinner, I think we need to just stay local and find another place to live. Established patients with current doctors is a big thing now, especially with what's going on with health care. Thank you, for reaching out. I love this Mayo connect site and the good people, like you, that are willing to help us figure it out.
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@ocdogmom PS, "feathering your new nest" So upbeat and positive, and FUN. I love that. Best,