@bajjerfan exactly. I see all these messages and my wife was sick. Now passed. Its still very important to me but I think mostly due to the thought that it wrecks havoc on your manhood. Dating a younger woman now(70) but menopause has caused havoc with her system. I am now taking the shots but there are lots of things to work through. I guess if I was 60 not 74 I might have a little different thought. But it is still enjoyable experimenting.