@kjc48 Our one daughter lives in San Diego and the other in St Petersburg so at the opposite sides of the earth as far as we are concerned. We all talked about moving to a place where we could all be together and also enjoy what the location offers which sounded great at the first, but then as I thought about it more I determined that may not be the best solution. If we all move to a location we can all be together, we become isolated from our friends, and if we stay where we are, we are far away from our girls. We had to determine what choice would be healthier for my wife. Neither choice is ideal, but we have decided staying around friends is more beneficial for her. Just thought I would share another perspective.