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Dealing with a Spouse with a “Mild Cognitive Impairment”
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I'm dealing every day and trying to stay as positive as I can. I'm haven't gone through anger or grieving over my husband's MCI, but I'm very anxious about the unknown, fear of what's to come and when. I'm also trying to decide "our next move" since we're in a rental house, up there in age, and trying to figure out do I position "us" someplace closer to where one of his son's live, although, their life is so busy, I don't think they would have time to factor us in. My own son (from another marriage) is in Texas; that's not a great alternative either, as he's just as busy as my stepson dealing with his job and the time commitment with athletic kids in the family. I ask God every day to give me the courage and clarity to know what to do and when.
Happy Easter to every caregiver and their loved one.
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@kjc48 Our one daughter lives in San Diego and the other in St Petersburg so at the opposite sides of the earth as far as we are concerned. We all talked about moving to a place where we could all be together and also enjoy what the location offers which sounded great at the first, but then as I thought about it more I determined that may not be the best solution. If we all move to a location we can all be together, we become isolated from our friends, and if we stay where we are, we are far away from our girls. We had to determine what choice would be healthier for my wife. Neither choice is ideal, but we have decided staying around friends is more beneficial for her. Just thought I would share another perspective.
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My lawyer mentioned selecting where you want to live may be affected by how much their state covers for Medicare. Apparently coverage isn't the same state to state, so you may want to factor that into your decision. Also, availability of specialty medical professionals that can work with your husband (lack of medical providers is an issue in my small town, so we will need to move to a bigger city, one that has the providers he needs).
If you're looking at Continuing Care Retirement Communities, check which ones are accredited, that will also narrow your search.
Good luck and all the best. 🐣