@billybwbf2 Billy, sorry to hear that. There is so much stuff out there, probably much of it bogus, that I hesitate to encourage the sex toy industry. However if you haven’t looked, Amazon has their usual, gigantic alternatives. In general my only specific suggestion is adding some gentle anal stimulation. I have been amazed how otherwise very traditional women, choir members, welcome something up the but to get off. When all is said and done, for both men and women it’s all about having an orgasm. That’s why this site exists.