@jenniferhunter I have struggled for 20 years after a TBI which left me with seizures. They were started after multiple blows to the head by my x partner. It is a difficult time after this terrible tragedy just like your father, things change & are never the same again. You are so good to be looking after your father. I was looking after my mother up until 2022 as she had been left in pain 24/7 after her gallbladder was removed. She had a stroke in 22 so had to go into a home as she ended up in a wheelchair & is now struggling with Dementia.