@steve55, For one we haven't been to a restaurant for quite some time but when we go I order a drink, usually Grey Goose over ice and sip it throughout the meal. The sips are very small and the glass is usually still quite full as the ice melts but it gives me something to do while the others are eating. And I think it makes the others more comfortable for me to have something too. The biggest problem is my inability to join in the conversation as my voice is also being effected. Our socialization is mostly in our home as I still like to cook and plan menus. Our close friends do not mind that I feed myself at the table while they eat. Take care!