@shellyk89
So sorry for your experiences!! You are a warrior and don't let any one tell you different!!! Yes, the silences are good to listen too. But, they can also drive you crazy, been there done that!! Breast cancer is a journey for each individual that is going through it. No matter what kind and how severe. I have had breast cancer twice! 26 years apart!! In shock, unbelievable and just nuts. do your own research, this is a good forum to come too also. If you are well enough to go to a support group go,because you will find people that have had similiar experiences but those experiences can only be used as a guide. You have lived in your body, all this time. Listen to the silences it's telling you. BUT, the one thing you should remember always. YOU ARE NOT ALONE! They are walking in their shoes and your are walking in yours. All shoes but different sizes, widths and colors. God be with YOU! And if you listen you will hear him!!