@slarson14 Any decent psychologist will tell you that motivation is the basis of all behaviours, including doing nothing. Or, the wrong things.

True story: when my just-passed dad was a boy of 13, his parents decided to join the neighbourhood and purchase/lease a crank-telephone...the large wall-mounted box. His parents made a few calls, mostly to let others know they were 'on line.' One day, my dad wanted to call a friend, but he was intimidated by the large structure and the oddness of speaking into it. He turned to his father and asked his dad to help him to make the call for him. My grandfather, without even lowering his newspaper, replied, 'Son, when you want to make that call badly enough, you'll make it yourself.' Truer words were never spoken. They speak to what can bring ourselves to do even when it is not clear, convenient, or common.