@wwsmith Agree- there’s no question in my mind that surgery can be devastating to your sex life; I am a walking example of it.
However, all surgeries are not the same, right? In my case I had an extensive amount of G4+3 which spread so far laterally that it caused a ‘tiny’ (Haha!) break in the capsule.
So of course I am impotent - I told the surgeon to cut until it was gone and not worry about my future as a pornstar.
But not all men have cancer that extensive and many - probably not on this forum - do recover fully.
It’s the old saying that ‘we’re all different’…so much so that I sometimes wonder how any of us can offer advice to a newbie since we really have no idea how they’ll react to anything we ‘recommend’. It’s such a damn crapshoot!!
Phil