I should share--my husband has trouble with remote and even can only sign a check. I have learned to sometimes deter him to different conversation but when he can remember most everyone but me and I do everything for him
including manicure and pedicure and he is incontinent as well so I have to help as he puts his pull ups on backward even though I mark them. I keep my sense of humor. I purchased a transport wheelchair and things to assist at home. Even though I am turning 80 and am 125lbs I can do most things because I have trained with a trainer since I was 40. It has been the best investment in my own health. I want to stay in our home which is large but We love it.