@lkbous You sound fortunate regarding his drinking. Everyone is different (duh). I strongly believe in optimizing quality of life, and my wife believes wine helps her quality of life, despite being told that she should not drink and that drinking will accelerate her cognitive loss. She seems unaware of how much worse her memory and executive function become with even one glass of wine and her personality often changes to Ms Hyde after another glass or two, which affects my quality of life. She has always been confrontational and she would not take it well if I tried to take it away (she is still capable of driving). She drinks this awful semi-sweet (blush) white zinfandel in a box with a sealed bladder, so diluting it isn't possible. I just feel like I am stuck with this situation. I quit drinking 5 years ago, but this situation (ironically) makes me want to drink as an escape (but I won't). Hugs to all dealing with the various forms of this issue.