Since I was diagnosed with Acute and then chronic pancreatitis, alcohol has been a non-starter for me, but I was also determined that I was not going to be the "lecturer" on the bad decisions that can come with alcohol and later I had the same issue when I quit smoking. My abstinence is my decision and mine alone and does not represent the activity I expect from everyone else. I think some are a bit concerned about being a bad influence on me, but I try to nip that in the bud if I know they would prefer a cocktail or glass of wine. I am happy to tell people how I feel now that the alcohol is not a necessary part of my celebrations, meals, gatherings, etc...but again that is a decision made for myself and not one I am going to attempt to press on to anyone else.