Good points. I made mistakes 40 years ago and 70 years ago and 40 days ago.

Gotta go fix them (if practical) or just move on. The key word is MOVE. sitting still will get you covered in dust, mentally and physically.

I have a mail box at the road, about 50 yards away. Even on my worst days I make myself go that far.

On cold/wet days, I go to Walmart, using a cart for support, and walk the isles. I smile at people. Say ‘excuse me’ for anyone I bump into, and politely go around those getting stuff for other people with those huge - and irritating - carts as they frantically scan items and search got the next one (sure glad I never had one of those jobs).

I often find something although probably not needed. I give stuff away or donate.

I go to the bank and use the teller to get cash. The ATM is usable but I go into to engage with a LIVE person. They don’t seem to mind, thank goodness. I wish them a pleasant day and they do the same.

Smile.

Dont be a grouch.

Say ‘hello’.

Wish people a good day.

If they say nothing don’t let it bother you. It’s their problem. Don’t make it yours.

KEEP GOING. TRY IT WITH THE NEXT PERSON.

However, remain cautious. Going out does have its risks. Parking lots are dangerous places. Other people are in a hurry, meeting work or family schedules. Let them go first, and SMILE as they pass and look again to see if there is another driver in a hurry coming from the other direction. There often is.

Don’t go in the dark. Use your head. We are old people and there are some who may try to use their youth and strength against us. Don’t give them the opportunity.

Don’t put ALL the important stuff about you in one container (purse, wallet). If it goes away have something left to get home.

I rarely make left hand turns without a green arrow. I adjust my route, including to the drug store, to use them. It takes longer but getting there and returning safely is important. My driving skills have deteriorated some.

We’re old but not inept.

Get up.

Do something.

Check the mail.

Nothing there? Congratulations. Checking is an accomplishment. Getting something was second most important.

Check again tomorrow, even if it’s a Federal holiday because getting any mail is not the important part. Getting up is.