@jniels Wow. What a lot of hurdles you are facing, in addition to the main one that brought us all here! This Mayo Connect group has been so supportive and wonderful. How terrific you have family that will stay with your husband while you tend to the sale of your primary residence! We, too had a second home where it was warm, but we elected to return to where we’ve lived most of our lives, because of proximity to family. I’m happy with our decision, but it’s been quite the winter. I’m hopeful that Spring will help both of our outlooks, but especially my husband’s, as his balance is not good, so getting out and just being outside should help a lot, once the weather improves. How wonderful you have “Pams” in your life! What a kind gesture from her, and it probably helped you more than she knew. Best wishes in the repairs and sale of your home.