@raebaby My husband and I both ill but still have sense of humour but spending far too much time together! 2nd marriage for me age 37 2 children, then, and he was 28.... 45 yrs together now. When we met I was deeply concerned about the far distant future and I would be a pensioner older than him.. which happened of course: but he has been supportive of me and I of him and also he has as many illnesses: Sometimes after bickering on and off during the day we look at each other and say: we deserve each other! But we will always, always love each other ... just sometimes we dont like each other! 🙂