@readandlearn "You're the man!!!" I can only hope...but my neurovascular bundles were spared/retained during surgery. Each day I awaken with the hope that I might actually "feel" something...a twinge, a tweak, a tickle to get things going. I've got nothing. If this doesn't change, my newly single life and dating will become something vastly different than what I was hoping for. I am 71, but right up to the day before my RP surgery, I was as virile as a 30-40 year old. I still have the mind and desire of that 30-40 year old, but...being 71 years old, the women that I attract and date will likely be 50-years old and older, when their own desire starts to wane for a lot of them. I guess my relationship(s) will be more "cerebral" in nature...unfortunately. Trouble is the desire. I am in one way fortunate...I look 15-20 years younger than I am. I attract 40-50 year olds. I guess I will just have to "not engage" with them since they would reasonably expect me to be able to "perform", and would be very disappointed...turned off...if I couldn't. Thus, I'll be focused on the "over 50 disinterested/frigid gals I guess! Haha.