@guybe Too few of us PC patients are willing to set aside our feelings of "poor me", "I can't" or "why me" and try to work though to a the best possible outcome when it relates to our partners and sex.

Lately I've been having weekly lunches with a long time friend who has stage 4 lung cancer. We both talk about doing the best with our lives in spite the cancers we have.

Perhaps between us and others we could write a "self-help" PC sex guide. Maybe we could call it "How to Make Love with a limp dick and prostate cancer without pills, needles, or surgery"