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I understand you discomfort completely but perhaps you could have offered written instructions or a written report ? Or ask for male assistant ?

She was asking so that she could help multitude of men who are also struggling . : ( Perhaps it is not too late to do that if you are with the same doctor.

For me personally it is always easier to do something if I know that it is for the sake of others - many inhibitions than become non-existing. Just a thought ; ).