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Is multi-orgasm possible post-prostatectomy?
Prostate Cancer | Last Active: Mar 3 5:28pm | Replies (13)Comment receiving replies
I elected to have the nerve bundles cut during surgery. My surgeon & his staff wanted to make sure I was happy with the state of affairs after surgery, & offered whatever assistance I might want in this regard. Then I found out that I was multi-orgasmic. When I reported this to my surgeon's staff, his physician's assistant (a female) called me & wanted to know the specifics (technique) with a flaccid penis. I was VERY uncomfortable discussing that level of detail with her (& didn't).
I do give my surgeon & his staff credit for this level of follow-up.
The ability to be multi-orgasmic continues to be true to today, five years after surgery.
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@readandlearn WOW! You’re like the guy who wakes up from a coma able to speak 3 or 4 languages he’d never spoken before…Good for you!
Phil
@readandlearn "You're the man!!!" I can only hope...but my neurovascular bundles were spared/retained during surgery. Each day I awaken with the hope that I might actually "feel" something...a twinge, a tweak, a tickle to get things going. I've got nothing. If this doesn't change, my newly single life and dating will become something vastly different than what I was hoping for. I am 71, but right up to the day before my RP surgery, I was as virile as a 30-40 year old. I still have the mind and desire of that 30-40 year old, but...being 71 years old, the women that I attract and date will likely be 50-years old and older, when their own desire starts to wane for a lot of them. I guess my relationship(s) will be more "cerebral" in nature...unfortunately. Trouble is the desire. I am in one way fortunate...I look 15-20 years younger than I am. I attract 40-50 year olds. I guess I will just have to "not engage" with them since they would reasonably expect me to be able to "perform", and would be very disappointed...turned off...if I couldn't. Thus, I'll be focused on the "over 50 disinterested/frigid gals I guess! Haha.
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I understand you discomfort completely but perhaps you could have offered written instructions or a written report ? Or ask for male assistant ?
She was asking so that she could help multitude of men who are also struggling . : ( Perhaps it is not too late to do that if you are with the same doctor.
For me personally it is always easier to do something if I know that it is for the sake of others - many inhibitions than become non-existing. Just a thought ; ).