That decision is so very personal. I too had to cancel travel plans and stop planning new travels due to this not-invited disease. I think we have all had to change life plans unexpectedly and disappointingly. I'm 65, recently retired, same as my wife, and am frustrated by what life handed me in the form of Pc. But that's life. An old but true saying, life is what happens while you're planning it.
I feel oh so lucky that mine was caught early and is not metastatic, as so many people on this forum are dealing with. I plan on living a very long, engaged, and active life. I found a Doc I trust and will follow his directions to a T, which is why I am taking Orgovyx, going through radiation, and doing all I can to put this beast behind me for good. Everyone is different and the daily cancer routine gets old, but I will follow all recommendations (not blindly) to maximize my odds of a long unencumbered life once I beat it. But that's me on my own life journey, timeline, age, and goals.
Carefully evaluate your treatment goals and you do what's best for you and your life goals. Only you can do that and whatever path you take is the right one.
Thanks @jesse65. Tavel is what I love doing. I followed my RO advice in starting on Orgovyx. That surpressed my cancer so I was able to travel to Portugal. But importantly is gave me time to research and think about what option would be best for my life goals. I didn’t go through the IMRT he wanted and eventually landed on SBRT Proton therapy. Congratulations to you on finding your way through this situation none of us wanted. Good luck on getting the results you need to meet your life goals. I’m looking forward to an active life.