With what you have going on now with incontinence, it Is unlikely to change in the next few weeks. He will have to carry pads or diapers, depending on what works Best for you.

You could get a clamp that you can use as long as you move it around every couple of hours. I use a Wiesner Client I got at Amazon for about $35 and it works quite well to stop the leaking. I Always wear it when I go to the gym or go out to dinner.