I totally get it, but I don’t have any answers. I am told this is a phase that he will move through…My husband is continuously sorting through and packing up his belongings to go. He is fearful of someone wanting to take his things. I can be doing laundry and walk in the bedroom to find everything that is his on the bed or put in bags or boxes. When I ask him where he is going he never has an answer, he just knows he has to go. The funny thing is he never messes with my things so I guess he doesn’t consider I would be going with him.
Yesterday, he went out into the carport while I was paying bills and when I went to check on him he had loaded everything in the storage room into the back of our truck. All in a matter of a very short time. I have to continuously redirect to convince him no one is going to take his things and this is our home where his things belong. It seems like I spend all my time putting everything back where it should be and he forgets about it until the next time.
Anyone else dealing with this?