@judimahoney
He knows that asking for more money is not an option. When I reminded him of this recently and he became angry and said "way to kick me to the curb when I'm down". As if I was rubbing it in that he not longer had that option. For most go his adult life I have helped him out financially so I think I have create this dynamic. With my husband, he has been helping out emotionally and physically like when we had move all our bedroom furniture downstairs. I just have to accept that his financial, physical and mental welfare are not my responsibility. I just have too much on my plate right now. Thanks for responding Judi, I feel better knowing that someone cares.