My PN is better'n your PN! Naw, naw!
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I'd never thought to rank my PN. My PN is predominantly large-fiber, so my most troublesome PN symptom is poor balance. Others of us have small-fiber PN, where sufferers' greatest challenge is managing pain. The other day, a friend with small-fiber PN said to me, "At least you have the better kind of PN." Better? I'd never thought of my PN as "better." Or "worse," for that matter. (Although, had I a choice in the matter, I'd have chosen large-fiber, with its poor balance; I'd have begged not to have to suffer the pain of small-fiber.) My approach, accepting that my PN is incurable and likely progressive, is to say to myself, "it is what it is," and get on with my better-balance exercises. However, I did think it odd that someone would look upon the different kinds of PN, with their different sets of symptoms, and think it was okay to rank them: "better," "worse," "so, so," "My PN's not for sale," "I'll trade my PN for yours any day!" 🙂
Ray (@ray666)
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Female here, pushing 79 YO really hard. In 2021 I was diagnosed via EMG with ideopathic distal axonal sensory polyneuropathy, most likely age related. Symptoms include numbness, tingling, burning feelings from my feet up to my lower thighs. Those feelings have been slowly moving up my legs since before diagnosis. Because I'm not conceding to old age, I'm managing symptoms with 500 mg of gabapentin at bedtime only and during the day I make a point of being mindful about moving around due to the spongy walking sensation and wonky balance. After following this site for a couple of years, I realize how blessed I am that my neuropathy is mild compared to other folks. Like everyone else, I hope that someday there will be a "fix." Wishing everyone well in your neuropathy journey!
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4 ReactionsHello, @lynfrommn. You write, " After following this site for a couple of years, I realize how blessed I am that my neuropathy is mild compared to other folks." I, too, had a similar wake-up call, thanks to Connect. While I don't believe ranking one's PN against another's, I am grateful that my chief––if not only––PN symptom is tipsy balance. By going slow and paying good attention, I can manage tipsy balance. And tipsy balance is a non-issue when I'm sitting and sleeping; that, right there, is a blessing. Here's to you, @lynfrommn, and to all here browsing the Neuropathy forum! Cheers! –Ray (@ray666)
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2 ReactionsThat's so true, Suz (@db72): To each, his own (or her own) set of symptoms. After all, there's a reason they call it "idiopathic." Some things are mysteries and must remain mysteries. One of my neurologists had asked me if I'd been a heavy drinker. I had, but going on 40 years ago. I thought, "Ah, is that it: my drinking?" He said, "No. It can be a contributing factor for some, but not for you, Ray. There's nothing on your brain MRI to suggest that drink might have played a role." I've long since come to accept that I'll most likely never know why I have the particular PN that I have. And as for my PN's symptoms? I'll just deal with them as they come along. // I hope you're having a good weekend, Suz! –Ray (@ray666)
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You forgot the “boo boo”
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1 ReactionThe "boo boo"? Uh-oh. (But you have me scratching my head … 🙂 )
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1 ReactionToday, while perusing an email from Peripheral Neuropathy Group, they show home exercises to help with balance, and what did I see but a ToePro! It is in the February Institute of Peripheral Neuropathy email and it is titled "Regain your balance: Exercises for the brain and body." They give several exercises that don't involve the ToePro, so I think I'll give those a try.
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1 ReactionGood morning, Joan (@joanland). I'm so tempted to take my Toe Pro out for a spin, but I promised my PT that I'd hold off and give him a chance to show me how to use it properly. Instead, my new Toe Pro sits quietly beside my Mr. Coffee. Patience, Ray, patience! 🙂 –Ray (@ray666)
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